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McIntosh to McDonald’s “I’m not lovin’ it!”

Greenwich Village McDonald’s cashier, 31 year old Rayon McIntosh, was having an ordinary day before customer Denise Darbeau hauled off and slapped him.

Reportedly, Darbeau began cursing McIntosh after he questioned the authenticity of a $50 bill she handed him. Attempting to add injury to insult, after slapping McIntosh, Darbeau ran behind the counter as her friend, Rachael Edwards jumped over it. That’s when McIntosh delivered a super sized Mac attack by grabbing a metal rod and beating both women like he was tenderizing beef. The incident was captured on a cell phone camera by another customer.

Let me be perfectly clear when I say that I do not condone a man hitting a woman, but I also feel that any woman who throws the first punch against anyone, and especially against a man — unless she is Laila Ali — she had better be prepared for an a** whipping.  That is apparently what both women got. One of them was left with a fractured skull and broken arm, the other suffered cuts. McIntosh was fired.

Judging from word of mouth and comments on various blogs, a number of people believe that McIntosh was wrongly fired by McDonalds when he was obviously defending himself. He had no way of knowing whether the bold women would pull a knife or gun.

Some people are also upset over the fact that a few stations including CNN did not initially show the slap rendered by Darbeau, choosing instead to edit that portion out of the video. They showed only the footage of McIntosh striking both women with the rod.

Before the incident McIntosh was just another Mickey D employee trying to earn a living. The fact that he was also a convicted felon, who had served 10 years in prison after being convicted of manslaughter in 2000, apparently became an issue only after the incident which resulted in his being fired and locked up again; this time on charges of felony assault and criminal possession of a weapon.

He is currently being held under $40,000 bond. McIntosh has the support of his father and many people in cyber space. The incident has also prompted Facebook fans to create the Rayon McIntosh Defense Fund. Darbeau of Queens and Edwards of Brooklyn, both 24 years old, were reportedly drunk at the time and both were charged with menacing, trespassing and disorderly conduct.

Set the video below to full screen, closely watch the cashier and see what set him off.

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It’s About Time

Boomers, is it me or has time been speeding up significantly since we crossed that threshold into middle-age (albeit years ago)? I’m not talking about the typical Monday through Friday workweek that skips two days and then starts again before you even realize that there was a weekend in between. I am talking about years advancing faster than a PowerPoint presentation on automatic timing. Do you follow me? Well, I’m glad you do, because you know what they say about misery. Come take at trip with me down memory lane, and I’ll show you what I mean about fleeting time. 

There I am, a scrawny, four year old girl, clogging around in a long skirt and mother’s old high heel shoes, and playing grown up with my miniature dolls who live inside their tin doll house. There was no Pre-Kindergarten back then, so I am enjoying my last year of freedom before starting school.  I wish I could tell you that my childhood was spent doing exciting things like children of affluent people do, but my family was poor and we didn’t roll like that, so let’s get back to my own monotonous history.

Moving forward a few years, you’ll see that I have

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Michael Jackson’s Children — Who Are They Really?

Considering the countless millions of Michael Jackson fans out there, I know that this subject will touch a few raw nerves, but I am going to raise it anyway. 

Since MJ’s unfortunate death, we have seen more of his children than ever before. And I will bet my collection of Jackson 5 albums that I am not the only person who – whenever I see Paris, Prince (Michael, Jr.)  and Blanket on TV – wonder whose children are they? Not only do the three of them look nothing like MJ, the siblings don’t even resemble each other.

When I told a friend that I was writing a post about MJ’s children, her immediate response was, “Leave them alone. They are wonderful, healthy children. When the children are older, they may begin asking themselves, ‘Who are my biological parents? How did I get here?’ In the meantime, people should just leave them alone.”  Spoken like a true Jackson fan. Well, I too am a fan, but one with a very inquiring mind.

According to whomever you choose to believe, MJ’s children were born of

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Naked Pregnant Celebrities on Parade

Boomers, do you remember back in 1968, when the musical Hair made its debut on Broadway, and there was much to-do about the nude hippies in the finale of Act 1? The show’s nudity was a first for Broadway.

Over time, naked celebrities and nude scenes in movies and other public venues has become so prevalent that it is boring. Perhaps that is why, in 1991, photographer Annie Leibovitz and Vanity Magazine got creative and decided to one-up things by putting a seven month pregnant Demi Moore on the magazine cover.  Since then, pregnant celebrities have been jumping on the Lamaze bandwagon to go with the flow.

African American actress Nia Long is now following the trend of Demi Moore, Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Erykah Badu,Tia Mowry and a growing list of other celebrity women who, while in advance stages of pregnancy, bare their

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Reassessing the Death Penalty

My cousin, who I love dearly, and who is also the author of a previous post on this blog (Viewpoint on the Death Penalty) has been trying for years to convince me of the injustice of the death penalty. To say that he is an adamant opponent of the death penalty would be an understatement. His reasons for opposing capital punishment are numerous, but topping his list are these: the possibility of a wrongful execution of innocent people, racial bias, and taking the life of another person under any circumstance is morally wrong. The pending execution of Troy Davis has renewed our debate. 

I was neutral on the death penalty issue until sometime during the 1980’s when six year old Adam Walsh was  murdered and decapitated. Until then, the most horrific crime I had ever heard of, I learned about as a child. The story – told and retold by my parents and numerous adults in my extended family – detailed the torture and murder of  Emmett Till in 1955. Till, a 14 year old black boy, while visiting Money, Mississippi from Chicago, allegedly “disrespected” a white woman. For his action during that pre-civil rights era, Till was severely beaten, had an eye gouged out, was shot, and then 

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